I guess, the overall theme for the week would be: Lost and Found Opportunities.
At work: a co-worker's poor judgement led to their termination. They were a really nice person, smart, with unlimited possibilities....but one horrible choice led to their demise. I mourned the termination of my friend. (I hope they land on their feet, despite the poor state of our economy.) But at they same time, I recognize that it was their decisions that led them to this exact place and time.
Personally: two of my dearest friends cancelled their wedding. It is true, that it is better for the decision to be made now than to find themselves in divorce proceedings later. However, this fact doesn't make sending out "the wedding is off" notices, returning gifts, and separating any easier. He made the choice. She has to move out. They have to heal. Sounds simple, but the reality is much more messy. We, the friends of both, are struggling, too. How do you help one without offending the other? The truly sad part is that they do, indeed, love each other and that the wedding was only two weeks away.
So, those are the lows of the week. The high points were wonderful! I reconnected with a dear friend who now lives in Oregon. Another sweet voice from the past sent me a warm message from California. My family is doing beyond well, they are awesome! We had a team lunch, to celebrate the launch of a new product, at the Portland City Grill. I am starting a new project researching opportunities in Latin America. And I hung out with my writing friends at a book signing at my favorite indy bookstore, Jan's Paperbacks.
My hope is that I am now entering a period of calm. Soooo much negative energy was swirling this week, it's time to get some positive juices flowing!
One of my favorite bands, Red Hot Chili Peppers, covered this song in 1996 for the film Beavis and Butt-head Do America. This film is not anything to write home about, but the Chili Pepper's cover of Love Rollercoaster is a real treat.
"Your love is like, a roller coaster, baby, baby...."
|View from our private dining room at the Portland City Grill.|
What memories does this song bring to your mind? Let me know - leave a comment below.